Assalamualaikum wbt
"We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"
The day that marked Achu's new step in life.
Th only lady among her siblings of Hj Zamri's family.
The end of all the waits.
I carry the duty as her bridesmaid on her big day. It is a great honor to being able to do so.
I was besides Achu all the time, holding her cold hands that were shaking. Nervous. I bet her heartbeat increased each time the clock ticked. And it was even nerve-wrecking when the Imam has arrived, ready to start the solemnization ceremony.
As usual, the ceremony starts with khutbah nikah that explains the purpose of marriage, the responsibilities that must be carried for both husband and wife and other things related to it.
For the people who really give attention to the content of the khutbah, you will be really touched to know how Allah is very compassionate and loving when He gives the feelings of love between humans and allow them to be united in a blessed way. On the other hand, you will also realize that marriage is not an easy thing. You will need to carry big responsibility as a husband and a wife, to the family members of the partner, and soon, if Allah wills, as a mother and father of future mujahid/mujahidah.
A marriage is one of the way to build a better generation. A better ummah.
Atok was the one who carried the duty to marry them both, and this is his first time since Achu is the only daughter in the family. I know Atok is just as nervous as the bride and groom when he mistakenly said " Aku nikahkan dikau Mohd Aris Mohd Jaafar dengan anakku Mohd Zamri bin Mohd Sarap...". Hahhahha. That's his name!! All that were present burst into laughter, while the Imam can only shook his head and smile.
But alhamdulillah, all went well. Achu is now officially a wife. I saw her tears falling down slowly and her hands were shaking even more when the du'a was recited.
The wedding was held on the same day at KK Club Melawati.
For every wedding, it is a day of gathering for friends and families. Those that have not met for a very long time, those that are living in great distance, those that are near, and those that are close. It unites all.
That day, the bride and the groom were the prettiest and the most charming of all. With beautiful decorations of the hall, stunning and elegant outfits, delicious food; I saw smiles and happy faces everywhere, filling up the atmosphere. It was indeed the best day of the year.
Alhamdulillah. A blessed day.
May Allah shower both of you, Achu Ita and Uncle Aris, with His blessings and His love. May we all will always be guided toward a straighter path, and together, enter the Jannah. Insya Allah.
Selamat Pengantin Baru Achu!