Assalamualaikum wbt...
Dear daughter...
A good wife gives her all for her husband. Her happiness is when her husband is happy. She is prepared to sacrifice her spirit, her ambitions, her desires and her comfort for her husband. She regards herself as a wife and a slave. For the sake of her husband, she regards disgrace as honour and a bed of thorns as a bed of flowers.
Listen well oh my innocent daughter! You will soon be a new bride and a daughter-in-law. You are entering a new phase in your life. Until now, you have been playing and eating and sleeping without worry. You were happy and laughing all the time. Things will be changing now. You will now have responsibilities and you will be living under a new rule. Until now you have been living for yourself. From tomorrow, you will be serving others. The one who was the charm of people's eyes and who grew up in cradle of hopes will now be handed over in the service of others.
Remember that whatever good or bad happens will be for that day. Take things a step at a time. You will need to restrain yourself because the journey ahead is not going to be an easy one. The responsibilities will be difficult but remember that the rewards and glad tidings are also tremendous.
Ummu Salma narrates from the one who was sent as a mercy to the universe, 'The woman who passes every stage of her life and finally reaches the final stage while her husband is pleased with her, she will surely enter Jannah. It is as if there is no barrier between Jannah and her!'
Dear daughter, even the worst difficulties of life are temporary. Keep the final stage of life in front of you and Allah Taala will turn every thorn into a flower and every stone into water.
Love,
Your father
*I wonder what Abi will tell me and advise me when the time has come,hehehe*
Dear daughter...
A good wife gives her all for her husband. Her happiness is when her husband is happy. She is prepared to sacrifice her spirit, her ambitions, her desires and her comfort for her husband. She regards herself as a wife and a slave. For the sake of her husband, she regards disgrace as honour and a bed of thorns as a bed of flowers.
Listen well oh my innocent daughter! You will soon be a new bride and a daughter-in-law. You are entering a new phase in your life. Until now, you have been playing and eating and sleeping without worry. You were happy and laughing all the time. Things will be changing now. You will now have responsibilities and you will be living under a new rule. Until now you have been living for yourself. From tomorrow, you will be serving others. The one who was the charm of people's eyes and who grew up in cradle of hopes will now be handed over in the service of others.
Remember that whatever good or bad happens will be for that day. Take things a step at a time. You will need to restrain yourself because the journey ahead is not going to be an easy one. The responsibilities will be difficult but remember that the rewards and glad tidings are also tremendous.
Ummu Salma narrates from the one who was sent as a mercy to the universe, 'The woman who passes every stage of her life and finally reaches the final stage while her husband is pleased with her, she will surely enter Jannah. It is as if there is no barrier between Jannah and her!'
Dear daughter, even the worst difficulties of life are temporary. Keep the final stage of life in front of you and Allah Taala will turn every thorn into a flower and every stone into water.
Love,
Your father
*I wonder what Abi will tell me and advise me when the time has come,hehehe*